changing???

salam....

some time i think i in the same position like i in standard 5....
this year i realize that i is the same person same character like i'm in that year...
but what is change is people around me....the environment i live now is changing and leaving me behind.....
everything is change....
family....
friends....
relatives....
thoughts....
believes....
environments.....

need i to change too????
what i need to change???
my personality????
my dress??
my style???
my thought???
what is the real thing that i need to change???
so that i can follow the environment, people around me.....